You are tired of your teens actions, but don't know what to do. If your teen is not responsive to conversation with you, your job may be tougher on you. There are many consultants that can work with you to reach the desired results that you may need.
Many consultants are not associated with any particular program and can direct you to which program suits your teen the best. When consulting with these people, be open and honest with them. They need as much, and as accurate information as you can give them. Remember, this is the option that you have if your teen will not cooperate with you.
In the case that your teen will talk with you, be up front with them. Let them know that the reason for the decision you have made is because you care for them, and can't watch any longer as they are headed down that dead end road. Sit with them and discuss the options and explain to them that you will be going through this time of life together, as a family.
Talk about what each of your needs are and what your expectations for each other are. Your teen will be more receptive if he/she knows that this is a team decision and that you are all in it together. It is better to disrupt the flow of your teens life when they are on the wrong track, than to allow the wrong track to disrupt their life for good. Let's do all we can to save the lives of the ones that we love.
No comments:
Post a Comment