If we are going to allow our teens to date, which sometimes they will do it whether we allow it or not, we need to be aware of some of the risks that are involved. Teen pregnancy and abuse in a relationship are becoming more and more common.
The school systems now days are trying to make kids become more aware of the problems that may arise from sex. They warn of spread of disease and pregnancy. Many schools even offer condoms for teens to use, with the idea that if you are going to do it then at least protect yourself. I disagree with the handout as a way of empowering or condoning the action as being okay because you are protected. The teenage years are in no way a good time to become pregnant and raise a child. I do not think that teens know what they are taking on.
You may talk with your own teen and let them know how you feel about these things. My dad always told me not to make him a grandpa before he was ready to be. That always stuck in my mind. I had respect for my dad because he was always open and honest with me. I knew where he was coming from and he knew where I was coming from. Being open minded and listening to your teen will go a long way in helping them to make good decisions.
If your teen does happen to get pregnant, what are your options? I personally do not agree with abortion, but I also do not think that a teenager has the attention and will to raise a child. Especially not if they are still in highschool. There are too many distractions for a school aged teen to raise a child with love and attention to the childs needs. There are many clinics that will address your teens needs physically, but what about mentally. I am lost on how to deal with a pregnant teen. If anyone has any ideas please feel free to comment.
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